Gosh this feels like a blast from the past!

 I used to be a "mummy blogger" years ago, recording the highs and lows of home educating.  I now have a fully fledged adult so no more wittering on about xer then.  However, I am still learning, as we all do, and the million notebooks I scribble down things in are proving to be a less and less useful way to record useful information.  So back to blogging it is.


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